367. Tag Would you make out with this woman?

Dame!? ohne Arme!!I thought that I might stop writing this diary, but as you can see, I am still writing. And right now, I have the luxury to live in a flat with connection to the internet.

Tonight I found a page, where someone asks: Would you make out with this woman? Showing pictures of me!

Here is the link to the page: where you can read the answers or put your own answers! Up to now, most people think I am a man, and others just followed the mainstream, that dating a woman with beard is not possible…..

Again and again, people asked me, if I had a boyfriend or if I would live with someone. I am living alone for quite some years now.  And I like it, as I wanted to spend time with myself. Seeing the difficulties other people have,  living in a relationship, I was happy to be alone. It is special to be with oneself. And I think it is the basic thing to be able to BE with yourself to really BE with someone else. The other person should enrich the life and be able to be alone. What I wish for, is a person, no matter what sex, to be a company to go throu life. Someone I can do things together and laugh… where I can feel a connection, feel inspired, and exited to be together and vice versa. Where it is fun to be together and where also everyone is able to be alone for himself. As much closeness, as possible and as much distance as necessary in a balancerfd way. A respectful being together supporting each other. Perhaps it needs some distance to stay alert and wake to treat one another in a respectful manner. Everyone has his needs of closeness and distance to be in contact with oneself.

And about the person, that I would like to walk together for a while, I think the beard would not be a hindrance. And until we meet, I will enjoy to be with myself and the world…

There are so many ideas about what is “normal”. There is the separation in men and women. And the other one is that you should have a relation with the opposite sex. NORMAL? Why? Because most of mankind is behaving like this!?

There is so much more! For example, as we know by now, there are not only men and women. There are quite some more forms ……

And there is not only the relation between men and women. There can be different ways of being in a relation. And  as soon, as the limitations in the mind are torn away, so many more ways of living are possible…


2 Responses

  1. I agree with your last point.

    “And the other one is that you should have a relation with the opposite sex. NORMAL? Why? Because most of mankind is behaving like this!?”

    A large part of it is biological.

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